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Thursday, July 23, 2026

Parables People and Purpose

 The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today challenge us to examine the distractions that lead us away from the fullness of life that our relationship with Christ sustains.

Full Life Beyond Distractions


The Reading from the Book of the Prophet Jeremiah portrays Israel as the wife of the Lord.


* [2:13:5] These chapters may contain some of Jeremiah’s early preaching. He portrays Israel as the wife of the Lord, faithful only in the beginning, when she walked behind him (2:23, 5; 3:1). Consistent with the marriage metaphor, he describes her present unfaithfulness as adultery (2:20; 3:23); now she walks behind the Baals.

* [2:2] Devotion: Heb. hesed; Israel’s gratitude, fidelity, and love for God.

* [2:3] First fruits: the first yield of a harvest offered as a sign of dependence on and gratitude toward the Lord of the land, thus divine property. Israel, then, is a gift made to God, set apart for his use; cf. Ex 23:19.

* [2:8] Experts in the law: the priests. The shepherds: the kings and nobles. (Jeremiah, CHAPTER 2 | USCCB, n.d.)


Psalm 36 proclaims the rule of divine love and mercy over God’s friends,


* [Psalm 36] A Psalm with elements of wisdom (Ps 36:25), the hymn (Ps 36:610), and the lament (Ps 36:1113). The rule of sin over the wicked (Ps 36:25) is contrasted with the rule of divine love and mercy over God’s friends (Ps 36:610). The Psalm ends with a prayer that God’s guidance never cease (Ps 36:1112). (Psalms, PSALM 36 | USCCB, n.d.)


In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus proclaims the Purpose of Parables and the Privilege of Discipleship.


* [13:153] The discourse in parables is the third great discourse of Jesus in Matthew and constitutes the second part of the third book of the gospel. Matthew follows the Marcan outline (Mk 4:135) but has only two of Mark’s parables, the five others being from Q and M. In addition to the seven parables, the discourse gives the reason why Jesus uses this type of speech (Mt 13:1015), declares the blessedness of those who understand his teaching (Mt 13:1617), explains the parable of the sower (Mt 13:1823) and of the weeds (Mt 13:3643), and ends with a concluding statement to the disciples (Mt 13:5152).


* [13:11] Since a parable is figurative speech that demands reflection for understanding, only those who are prepared to explore its meaning can come to know it. To understand is a gift of God, granted to the disciples but not to the crowds. In Semitic fashion, both the disciples’ understanding and the crowd’s obtuseness are attributed to God. The question of human responsibility for the obtuseness is not dealt with, although it is asserted in Mt 13:13. The mysteries: as in Lk 8:10; Mk 4:11 has “the mystery.” The word is used in Dn 2:18, 19, 27 and in the Qumran literature (1QpHab 7:8; 1QS 3:23; 1QM 3:9) to designate a divine plan or decree affecting the course of history that can be known only when revealed. Knowledge of the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven means recognition that the kingdom has become present in the ministry of Jesus.

* [13:12] In the New Testament use of this axiom of practical “wisdom” (see Mt 25:29; Mk 4:25; Lk 8:18; 19:26), the reference transcends the original level. God gives further understanding to one who accepts the revealed mystery; from the one who does not, he will take it away (note the “theological passive,” more will be given, what he has will be taken away).

* [13:13] Because ‘they look…or understand’: Matthew softens his Marcan source, which states that Jesus speaks in parables so that the crowds may not understand (Mk 4:12), and makes such speaking a punishment given because they have not accepted his previous clear teaching. However, his citation of Is 6:910 in Mt 13:14 supports the harsher Marcan view.

* [13:1617] Unlike the unbelieving crowds, the disciples have seen that which the prophets and the righteous of the Old Testament longed to see without having their longing fulfilled. (Matthew, CHAPTER 13 | USCCB, n.d.)


Kimberly Grassmeyer comments that Jesus admits that he speaks in Parables to the people, as they are unable to “see or hear” the mysteries that the disciples have absorbed.  Much of the passage relies on Isaiah’s prophesy that the people can look but not truly see, and hear but not truly understand, and as such  have “gross” hearts.


Reading that passage, I wonder if anyone else shares my suspicion that I fall into this group?  There is so much that I don’t truly comprehend from Christ’s teaching, so much of God’s word that is difficult to absorb.  Am I the person who doesn’t truly see, understand, and love God with my whole heart?  Am I among those who will have everything taken away?  Jesus told the disciples that many prophets and faithful people had fallen short in their attempts to do so - who am I to hope that I’m better than they?


Ahhh, but I’m a New Testament Christian, eager to believe in God’s Grace.  So I’ll cling to the closing phrase from Isaiah’s prophesy:

“lest they see with their eyes

and hear with their ears

and understand with their hearts and be converted

and I heal them.”


My prayer today is to ask that God continue, always, to open wide my heart, my eyes, and my ears, that I may be truly converted and healed.  That I may one day know the mysteries of the Kingdom of Heaven.  And as importantly for this Christian, that I would live them out in my daily life on earth, sharing light and love with all people.  Amen. (Grassmeyer, 2026)



Don Schwager quotes “Ears that refuse to hear,” by Hilary of Poitiers (315-367 AD).


"Faith perceives the mysteries of the kingdom. A person will make progress in those things he has been immersed in and will abound with an increase in that progress. But in those things he has not been immersed in, even that which he has shall be taken away from him. In other words, he suffers the loss of the law from the loss of his faith. Lacking faith, the people of the law lost even the efficacy of the law. Therefore, gospel faith receives a perfect gift, because it enriches with new fruit those things that have been undertaken. But once it is rejected, even the help of one's former means of support is taken away. (excerpt from a commentary ON MATTHEW 13.2) (Schwager, n.d.)



Friar Jude Winkler reflects on Jeremiah who speaks about the Lord bringing the people from the desert and then they abandoned the Lord by being self-sufficient no longer dependent on the Lord for water and food. The Lord enacts a lawsuit to show the things they have chosen are not life giving. We choose food, acceptance, and these become central to our self satisfaction but Christ’s Love is the only Way to satisfy the deepest desires of our heart. Friar Jude notes Jesus quotes Isaiah today, typical in Matthew’s Gospel, written for a Jewish audience, to underline if the people reject his message in the simplest form they have rejected Him because they refuse to see. Jesus praises those who have opened eyes and ears to see and understand.



The Word Among Us Meditation on Matthew 13:10-17 comments that we can read this passage only as a condemnation of those whose hearts have become “gross,” but that would be too limiting. There is also an invitation here. 


So listen closely and look carefully when you are praying and reading Scripture. Welcome Jesus into your heart and ask him to let you sense his presence with you personally. Don’t let guilt or sin or boredom get in the way. Slow down and take your time; don’t rush through your prayer. Tell yourself that the words you are reading can speak to you and your situation. And trust that the God who loves you wants to speak to you!


“Lord, open my eyes and my ears to you!” (Meditation on Matthew 13:10-17, n.d.)



Father Richard Rohr, OFM, has long drawn comfort and wisdom from the writings of the young Jewish woman Etty Hillesum (1914–1943), believing her to be someone whose contemplative practice and mystical experience led to greater compassion and action in a hurting world. Shortly before her departure for internment at the Westerbork transit camp, Hillesum wrote in her journal. Hillesum fully accepted the brokenness of reality and chose to love ever more consciously.


Something has crystallised. I have looked our destruction, our miserable end which has already begun in so many small ways in our daily life, straight in the eye and accepted it into my life, and my love of life has not been diminished. I am not bitter or rebellious, or in any way discouraged. I continue to grow from day to day, even with the likelihood of destruction staring me in the face. I shall no longer flirt with words, for words merely evoke misunderstandings: I have come to terms with life.…


By “coming to terms with life” I mean: the reality of death has become a definite part of my life; my life has, so to speak, been extended by death, by my looking death in the eye and accepting it, by accepting destruction as part of life and no longer wasting my energies on fear of death or the refusal to acknowledge its inevitability. It sounds paradoxical: by excluding death from our life we cannot live a full life, and by admitting death into our life we enlarge and enrich [life]. [2] (Rohr, n.d.)


We implore the Spirit to reveal if our development of a sophisticated understanding and practice of our Christian faith is to serve our desire for moral and intellectual justification of our self aggrandizement rather than the faith, hope and love of Jesus Way. 



References

Grassmeyer, K. (2026, July 23). Daily Reflection July 23, 2026 | Creighton Online Ministries. Creighton Online Ministries. Retrieved July 23, 2026, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/daily-reflections/daily-reflection-july-23-2026 

Jeremiah, CHAPTER 2 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 23, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/jeremiah/2

Matthew, CHAPTER 13 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 23, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/matthew/13

Meditation on Matthew 13:10-17. (n.d.). Word Among Us. Retrieved July 23, 2026, from https://wau.org/meditations/2026/07/23/1629640/ 

Psalms, PSALM 36 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 23, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/36

Rohr, R. (n.d.). Etty Hillesum: A Commitment to Life. Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved July 23, 2026, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/etty-hillesum-a-commitment-to-life/ 

Schwager, D. (n.d.). Many Longed to Hear What You Hear. Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations – Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved July 23, 2026, from https://www.dailyscripture.net/daily-meditation/ 



Wednesday, June 6, 2018

Leaders and the Divine Design

The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today invite contemplation of the interplay between our work, our free will, and the blessing and graces in God’s design for our life.
Leadership and Culture

The author of the Second Letter to Timothy reminds us that redemption is not won by personal deeds.
* [1:9–10] Redemption from sin and the call to holiness of life are not won by personal deeds but are freely and graciously bestowed according to God’s eternal plan; cf. Eph 1:4.
Jesus vanquishes his adversaries on the question of the resurrection in the Gospel of Mark.
* [12:13–34] In the ensuing conflicts (cf. also Mk 2:1–3:6) Jesus vanquishes his adversaries by his responses to their questions and reduces them to silence (Mk 12:34).
Angela Maynard shares that today’s reading make her think about being called to a holy life, not according to her works, but according to His own design and the grace bestowed on us in Christ Jesus before time began, but now made manifest through the appearance of our savior Christ Jesus. (2 Timothy 1.9-10).
What is my purpose? What are gifts and graces that I have received to help me carry out the plan God has just for me?  Above all, how can my gifts be used to serve others, ultimately fulfilling a major message from the gospel?
Augustine writing “On the Spirit and the Letter” is presented by the New Advent website.
A man's free-will, indeed, avails for nothing except to sin, if he knows not the way of truth; and even after his duty and his proper aim shall begin to become known to him, unless he also take delight in and feel a love for it, he neither does his duty, nor sets about it, nor lives rightly. Now, in order that such a course may engage our affections, God's love is shed abroad in our hearts, not through the free-will which arises from ourselves, but through the Holy Ghost, which is given to us. Romans 5:5
Don Schwager also quotes Augustine of Hippo, 354-430 A.D on “No marriage in the resurrection.”
The Lord passed through the usual stages of growth, from infancy to adult manhood, because he was bearing the substance of flesh that still was mortal. After he had risen again at the age at which he was buried, are we to imagine that he is growing old in heaven? He says, 'They will be equal to the angels of God.' He eliminated the assumption of the Jews and refuted the objection of the Sadducees, because the Jews did indeed believe the dead would rise again, but they had crude, fleshly ideas about the state of humanity after resurrection. He said, 'They will be equal to the angels of God.' ... It has already been stated that we are to rise again. We have heard from the Lord that we rise again to the life of the angels. In his own resurrection, he has shown us in what specific form we are to rise again." (excerpt from SERMON 362.18–19.30)
Friar Jude Winkler comments that 2 Timothy, one of the pastoral epistles is Pauline but the ecclesiology is much more advanced leading to the conclusion that it was written by a disciple of Paul. Jesus asserts to the Sadducees that the wife is not property and Love, in the resurrection, is not possessive. The Sadducees are confronted with the cognitive dissonance that the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob must somehow be in existence.

The blog of Chris Massey, who is working through the cognitive dissonance that comes with a search for authentic faith, shares some insight into the authorship of the Letter to Timothy based on the difficulty of Greco-Roman culture with the role of women in the early Church.
There are several clues throughout the Pastorals that the author is motivated by a desire to reduce tensions with those outside the church, such that Christians might enjoy “peaceful and quiet lives” (1 Tim. 2:1-3). We know from ancient sources that the early church was criticized for the prominent role afforded to women and for teachings that were seen as disruptive to the household.
The Word Among Us Meditation on 2 Timothy 1:1-3, 6-12 writes that Paul reminded Timothy that God stands ready to fill him with spiritual blessings and to give him peace and assurance of his love.
Look more specifically at the words Paul used. Grace is God’s unmerited favor. Mercy is his gift of unlimited forgiveness. And peace is the gift that flows when we are open to receiving God’s grace and mercy (Ephesians 2:8-9; Titus 2:11; Hebrews 4:16; Ephesians 2:4-5; John 14:27). There is a sense of fullness to these words—God isn’t stingy with these gifts, and Paul wants Timothy to embrace them more and more deeply. This “more deeply” that Paul wants for him is less a matter of asking God to give Timothy more blessings and more about Timothy realizing just how much God is offering him every day.
Fr. Richard Rohr, OFM, observes that some of Christianity’s great mystics, such as Catherine of Siena (1347-1380), Ignatius of Loyola (1491-1556), and Teresa of Ávila (1515-1582), were also first-rate leaders, motivators of others, and creative reformers of institutions. He summarizes insights into what every good, servant-hearted, nondual leader practices.
In short, good leaders must have a certain capacity for thinking beyond polarities and tapping into full, embodied knowing (prayer). They have a tolerance for ambiguity (faith), an ability to hold creative tensions (hope), and an ability to care (love) beyond their own personal advantage.
Our assumptions about our mission and the boundaries we place around it sometimes ignore the mysterious plan of God and the grace we receive to live in accord with that plan.

References


(n.d.). 2 Timothy, chapter 1 - United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Retrieved June 6, 2018, from http://www.usccb.org/bible/2timothy/1

(n.d.). Mark, chapter 12 - United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Retrieved June 6, 2018, from http://www.usccb.org/bible/mark/12

(n.d.). CHURCH FATHERS: On the Spirit and the Letter (St. Augustine). Retrieved June 6, 2018, from http://www.newadvent.org/fathers/1502.htm

(n.d.). Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved June 6, 2018, from http://dailyscripture.servantsoftheword.org/

(2011, December 13). Did Paul Write the Pastoral Epistles? Part IV | Cognitive Discopants. Retrieved June 6, 2018, from https://cognitivediscopants.wordpress.com/2011/12/13/did-paul-write-the-pastoral-epistles-part-iv/

(n.d.). Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr - Mass Readings and Catholic Daily .... Retrieved June 6, 2018, from https://wau.org/meditations/

(n.d.). Daily Meditations Archive - Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved June 6, 2018, from https://cac.org/richard-rohr/daily-meditations/daily-meditations-archive/