Fullness in Family

The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today, the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph, challenge us to celebrate and commit to support our family.

Fullness and Family

The Reading from the Book of Sirach recalls Responsibilities to Parents.

* [3:1–16] Besides the virtues that must characterize our conduct toward God, special duties are enjoined, such as honor and respect toward parents, with corresponding blessings (vv. 1–9). By showing such respect especially to old and infirm parents (vv. 10–13), the sins of children are pardoned (vv. 14–15). Failure to honor father and mother is blasphemy and merits a curse from God (v. 16). Cf. Ex 20:12; Eph 6:2–3. (Sirach, CHAPTER 3 | USCCB, n.d.)

Psalm 128 offers thanksgiving for a fertile spouse and abundant children.

* [Psalm 128] A statement that the ever-reliable God will bless the reverent (Ps 128:1). God’s blessing is concrete: satisfaction and prosperity, a fertile spouse and abundant children (Ps 128:2–4). The perspective is that of the adult male, ordinarily the ruler and representative of the household to the community. The last verses extend the blessing to all the people for generations to come (Ps 128:5–6). (Psalms, PSALM 128 | USCCB, n.d.)

The Reading from the Letter to the Colossians exhorts us to Renunciation of Vice and support for The Christian Family.

* [3:5–17] In lieu of false asceticism and superstitious festivals, the apostle reminds the Colossians of the moral life that is to characterize their response to God through Christ. He urges their participation in the liturgical hymns and prayers that center upon God’s plan of salvation in Christ (Col 3:16). (Colossians, CHAPTER 3 | USCCB, n.d.)

The Gospel of Matthew presents the Flight of the Holy Family to Egypt and their Return from Egypt.

* [2:13–23] Biblical and nonbiblical traditions about Moses are here applied to the child Jesus, though the dominant Old Testament type is not Moses but Israel (Mt 2:15).

* [2:13] Flee to Egypt: Egypt was a traditional place of refuge for those fleeing from danger in Palestine (see 1 Kgs 11:40; Jer 26:21), but the main reason why the child is to be taken to Egypt is that he may relive the Exodus experience of Israel.

* [2:15] The fulfillment citation is taken from Hos 11:1. Israel, God’s son, was called out of Egypt at the time of the Exodus; Jesus, the Son of God, will similarly be called out of that land in a new exodus. The father-son relationship between God and the nation is set in a higher key. Here the son is not a group adopted as “son of God,” but the child who, as conceived by the holy Spirit, stands in unique relation to God. He is son of David and of Abraham, of Mary and of Joseph, but, above all, of God.

* [2:18] Jer 31:15 portrays Rachel, wife of the patriarch Jacob, weeping for her children taken into exile at the time of the Assyrian invasion of the northern kingdom (722–21 B.C.). Bethlehem was traditionally identified with Ephrath, the place near which Rachel was buried (see Gn 35:19; 48:7), and the mourning of Rachel is here applied to her lost children of a later age. Ramah: about six miles north of Jerusalem. The lamentation of Rachel is so great as to be heard at a far distance.

* [2:20] For those who sought the child’s life are dead: Moses, who had fled from Egypt because the Pharaoh sought to kill him (see Ex 2:15), was told to return there, “for all the men who sought your life are dead” (Ex 4:19).

* [2:22] With the agreement of the emperor Augustus, Archelaus received half of his father’s kingdom, including Judea, after Herod’s death. He had the title “ethnarch” (i.e., “ruler of a nation”) and reigned from 4 B.C. to A.D. 6.

* [2:23] Nazareth…he shall be called a Nazorean: the tradition of Jesus’ residence in Nazareth was firmly established, and Matthew sees it as being in accordance with the foreannounced plan of God. The town of Nazareth is not mentioned in the Old Testament, and no such prophecy can be found there. The vague expression “through the prophets” may be due to Matthew’s seeing a connection between Nazareth and certain texts in which there are words with a remote similarity to the name of that town. Some such Old Testament texts are Is 11:1 where the Davidic king of the future is called “a bud” (nēser) that shall blossom from the roots of Jesse, and Jgs 13:5, 7 where Samson, the future deliverer of Israel from the Philistines, is called one who shall be consecrated (a nāzîr) to God. (Matthew, CHAPTER 2 | USCCB, n.d.)

Jay Carney recalls his family’s difficult road trip that cannot compare to the deprivations the Holy Family faced.

This Sunday’s gospel reminds us that Jesus, Mary, and Joseph were refugees fleeing the imminent threat of political violence. The Messiah may have been a descendant of King David, but the Holy Family was not part of the ruling class. They were not among the powerful, the wealthy, or the influencers. Rather, they were poor, working-class immigrants walking by the light of faith, following their dreams, and seeking to survive in a violent, dangerous world. Like so many of our brothers and sisters on the move today.

I pray this Sunday that our church and world can, in the words of Colossians, turn a face of “compassion, kindness, humility, and gentleness” to migrants and refugees who walk in the footsteps of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. And may we strive to “put on love” with our own families, with whom we are privileged to share life’s journey. (Carney, n.d.)

Don Schwager quotes The holy family flees to Egypt, by John Chrysostom, 547-407 A.D.

"But why was the Christ child sent into Egypt? The text makes this clear: he was to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet, 'Out of Egypt have I called my son' (Hosea 11:1). From that point onward we see that the hope of salvation would be proclaimed to the whole world. Babylon and Egypt represent the whole world. Even when they were engulfed in ungodliness, God signified that he intended to correct and amend both Babylon and Egypt. God wanted humanity to expect his bounteous gifts the world over. So he called from Babylon the wise men and sent to Egypt the holy family.

"Besides what I have said, there is another lesson also to be learned, which tends powerfully toward true self-constraint in us. We are warned from the beginning to look out for temptations and plots. And we see this even when he came in swaddling clothes. Thus you see even at his birth a tyrant raging, a flight ensuing and a departure beyond the border. For it was because of no crime that his family was exiled into the land of Egypt.

"Similarly, you yourself need not be troubled if you are suffering countless dangers. Do not expect to be celebrated or crowned promptly for your troubles. Instead you may keep in mind the long-suffering example of the mother of the Child, bearing all things nobly, knowing that such a fugitive life is consistent with the ordering of spiritual things. You are sharing the kind of labor Mary herself shared. So did the magi. They both were willing to retire secretly in the humiliating role of fugitive." (excerpt from THE GOSPEL OF MATTHEW, HOMILY 8.2) (Schwager, n.d.)

The Word Among Us Meditation on Colossians 3:12-21 asserts it is a matter of receiving the grace and mercy God offers so that we can love in ways that we can’t do on our own. It’s a matter of giving away what we’ve received.

Practically, this means treating our family members with the heartfelt compassion and patience that we have received from Christ. It means bearing with our fellow sinners because we know how much Jesus bears with us.

What a relief this is! We don’t have to pretend to be perfect. We could never do it on our own anyway. But we do have to receive from Jesus the forgiveness that can move us to extend the same mercy to our loved ones. And that will make for a holy family!

“Heavenly Father, thank you for your mercy that moves me to show mercy to my loved ones!” (Meditation on Colossians 3:12-21, n.d.)

Friar Jude Winkler comments that Sirach speaks about respect to be shown within families without resentment and frustration even when the elders begin to have failure. We need to keep trying and view it as a vocation rather than a task. The passage from Colossians presents the virtues we need in family life including compassion, gentleness, and patience. A true family requires supernatural virtues. The wife is presented subordinate to the husband in accord with the norms in the day of the author. It is not so much who is in charge but that we live an ordered life. The Holy Family escapes Herod by going to Egypt. During his reign family and thousands had been killed. They fled to Egypt where more Jews were living than in Israel. Joseph planned to return to Judea but he is warned of an evil governor and the family goes to Nazareth. Friar Jude reminds us of the differing account of the early residences of the Holy Family in Luke and Matthew after their Exile in Egypt.

Fr. Mike Schmitz continues to interpret the symbols within Revelation. He compares the story of Our Lady of Guadalupe to the woman in Revelation. Fr. Mike provides context to the letter to the Hebrews, a letter that makes the case for Jesus, explaining who he is and the beauty of what he did for us. Today’s readings are Revelation 12-14, Hebrews 1-4, and Proverbs 31:16-18.

Father Richard Rohr writes on what “being salt and light” means for Christians and all people of good will. Christ is the light that allows people to see things in their fullness. The precise and intended effect of such a light is to see Christ everywhere else. In fact, that is his definition of a true Christian. A mature Christian sees Christ in everything and everyone else. That is a definition that will never fail us, always demand more of us, and give us no reasons to fight, exclude, or reject anyone.

If we pay attention to the text, we’ll see that John’s Gospel offers a very evolutionary notion of the Christ message. Note the active verb that is used here: “The true light that enlightens every person was coming (erxomenon) into the world” (John 1:9). In other words, we’re not talking about a one-time Big Bang in nature or a one-time incarnation in Jesus, but an ongoing, progressive movement continuing in the ever-unfolding creation. Incarnation did not just happen two thousand years ago. It has been working throughout the entire arc of time and will continue. This is expressed in the common phrase the “second coming of Christ,” which was unfortunately read as a threat (“Wait till your dad gets home!”), whereas it should more accurately be spoken of as the “forever coming of Christ,” which is anything but a threat. In fact, it is the ongoing promise of eternal resurrection. (Rohr, n.d.)

We invoke the help of the Spirit as we commit to honour our family connections with care, compassion, and commitment. 

References

Carney, J. (n.d.). Daily Reflection. Creighton Online Ministries: Home. Retrieved December 28, 2025, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/daily-reflections/daily-reflection-december-28-2025 

Colossians, CHAPTER 3 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved December 28, 2025, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/colossians/3?12 

Matthew, CHAPTER 2 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved December 28, 2025, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/matthew/2?13 

Meditation on Colossians 3:12-21. (n.d.). Word Among Us. Retrieved December 28, 2025, from https://wau.org/meditations/2025/12/28/1460730/ 

Psalms, PSALM 128 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved December 28, 2025, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/128?1 

Rohr, R. (n.d.). Daily Meditations — Center for Action and Contemplation. Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved December 28, 2025, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/that-by-which-we-see/ 

Schwager, D. (n.d.). An Angel of the Lord Appeared to Joseph in a Dream. Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations – Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved December 28, 2025, from https://www.dailyscripture.net/daily-meditation/ 

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Become like children

The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today invite us to consider the blessing of sharing our daily lives with children who remind us of sincerity, humility, kindness, and care.

Become Like Children

The Reading from the Book of Exodus proclaims the Reward of Fidelity.

* [23:21] My authority is within him: lit., “My name is within him.” (Exodus, CHAPTER 23, n.d.)

Psalm 91 praises The shelter of the Most High.

* [Psalm 91] A prayer of someone who has taken refuge in the Lord, possibly within the Temple (Ps 91:1–2). The psalmist is confident that God’s presence will protect the people in every dangerous situation (Ps 91:3–13). The final verses are an oracle of salvation promising salvation to those who trust in God (Ps 91:14–16).

* [91:1] The shelter of the Most High: basically “hiding place” but in the Psalms a designation for the protected Temple precincts, cf. Ps 27:5; 31:21; 61:5. The shade of the Almighty: lit., “the shadow of the wings of the Almighty,” cf. Ps 17:8; 36:8; 57:2; 63:8. Ps 91:4 makes clear that the shadow is an image of the safety afforded by the outstretched wings of the cherubim in the holy of holies. (Psalms, PSALM 91 | USCCB, n.d.)

In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus identifies the Greatest in the Kingdom.

* [18:3] Become like children: the child is held up as a model for the disciples not because of any supposed innocence of children but because of their complete dependence on, and trust in, their parents. So must the disciples be, in respect to God.

* [18:10] Their angels in heaven…my heavenly Father: for the Jewish belief in angels as guardians of nations and individuals, see Dn 10:13, 20–21; Tb 5:4–7; 1QH 5:20–22; as intercessors who present the prayers of human beings to God, see Tb 13, 12:15, . The high worth of the little ones is indicated by their being represented before God by these heavenly beings. (Matthew, CHAPTER 18, n.d.)

Nancy Shirley comments that the Guardian Angel prayer is also a staple in her family.

 

When we fly, we always hold hands at take-off and landing and say the prayer. Even my 10-year-old granddaughter never misses saying it when she travels. A couple of summers ago when she was going to fly alone with her dad, she asked my daughter to go over the prayer with her so she could be sure to say it herself. 

Angel of God, my guardian dear,

to whom God’s love entrusts me here,

ever this day be at my side to light and guard, 

to rule and guide. Amen”

How can I doubt or be fearful? This song says it best! Whom Shall I Fear [God of Angel Armies] by Chris Tomlin. (Shirley, n.d.)

Don Schwager quotes “Their angels behold the face of my Father in heaven,” by Chromatius (died 406 AD).

"It is not right to despise anyone who believes in Christ. A believer is called not only a servant of God but also a son through the grace of adoption, to whom the kingdom of heaven and the company of the angels is promised. And rightly the Lord adds, 'For I tell you that in heaven their angels always behold the face of my Father who is in heaven.' How much grace the Lord has toward each one believing in him he himself declares when he shows their angels always beholding the face of the Father who is in heaven. Great is the grace of the angels toward all who believe in Christ. Finally, the angels carry their prayers to heaven. Hence the word of Raphael to Tobias: 'When you prayed along with your daughter-in-law Sara, I offered the memory of your prayer in the sight of God (Deutero-canonical book of Tobit 12:12). Around them there is also the strong guard of the angels; they help each of us to be free from the traps of the enemy. For a human in his weakness could not be safe amid so many forceful attacks of that enemy if he were not strengthened by the help of the angels." (excerpt from TRACTATE ON MATTHEW 57.1) [Note: Chromatius was an early Christian scholar and bishop of Aquileia, Italy. He was a close friend of John Chrysostom and Jerome. He died in 406 AD. Jerome described him as a "most learned and most holy man."] (Schwager, n.d.)

The Word Among Us Meditation on Matthew 18:1-5, 10 comments that Jesus telling the disciples they had to “turn and become like children” in order to even enter his kingdom must have puzzled them (Matthew 18:3). How could choosing to be unimportant make you important? It seemed backwards!

On today’s feast of the Guardian Angels, we encounter something else that seems backwards: that each of us has our own personal angel to help us! Angels are immortal beings who “always look upon the face of [our] heavenly Father” (Matthew 18:10). Why would they even bother with us?

So let the guardian angels be an example for you today about the greatness that comes from humility. Let them show you how love leads to joyful service. Ask your guardian angel to pray for you, that you could embrace that same attitude and make serving the Lord your top priority. And as you do, ask him to help you discern how you can best put your skills and talents to work for the sake of God’s kingdom.

“Lord, thank you for giving me a guardian angel to look out for me. Help me imitate the humility and servant’s heart of all the angels!” (Meditation on Matthew 18:1-5, 10, n.d.)

Friar Jude Winkler recalls the rebuilding of Jerusalem by Nehemiah. Ezra encourages them to learn the Law that opens up possibilities like when we are convicted by a homily and God has given us an opportunity to grow. In Matthew, Jesus says in the Kingdom of Heaven we have to become like little children. Jesus speaks of a special angel that watches over us, a marvelous concept but Friar Jude suggests that some are too involved with connection to a guardian angel.  Friar Jude notes that we need to view our guardian angel as a spiritual aid rather than a border collie that leads us along the road.

Fr. Mike Schmitz continues reading from the book of Nehemiah as we read of the many attempts to prevent Nehemiah from doing the great work of God. We also see the events that lead to Esther being chosen as queen and the goodness she will bring even in the midst of a broken system. Today’s readings are Nehemiah 6-7, Esther 1-2, and Proverbs 21:1-4.

Fr. Richard Rohr, OFM, introduces Michele Dunne, who is the Executive Director of the Franciscan Action Network, an organization that seeks to embody Franciscan values in their work for justice for the earth and the poor. [1] In a recent issue of CAC’s the Mendicant donor newsletter, Dunne describes her deepening understanding of Franciscan witness.

For example, while I had always understood Jesus’s teaching to “take up your cross and follow me” simply as a call to bear patiently with the suffering inherent in daily life, I came to a totally different understanding after a long, frigid day spent at a climate protest in December 2019. Rereading the story (in Mark 8, Matthew 16, and Luke 9) at the urging of my friend and teacher the Rev. John Dear, I suddenly understood that Jesus was not speaking about patience with everyday suffering. As he faced escalating pressure—including from his friends—to stop speaking out against injustice, Jesus made it crystal clear that following him would require self-sacrifice, inconvenience, and possibly danger. How could I have missed that before? Maybe this new way of hearing was what “life to gospel” meant. 

The Franciscan path keeps the challenges coming but also supplies companions for the way. In 2021, I left a longtime career to join the Franciscan Action Network, where we are building an intergenerational movement for justice, peace, and creation rooted in the gospel and the examples of St. Francis and St. Clare. Our dozens of Franciscan Justice Circles across the country meet monthly in small groups, where we pray and take action together, discovering over and over again what it means to go from gospel to life and life to gospel. (Rohr, n.d.)

When my three year old grandaughter was setting the table for supper and she put out a placemat for her and her six year old brother who was going to join us later, it dawned on me how we learn to exclude and how blessed I was to receive her example of the Jesus exhortation to become as little children to experience the fullness of life.

References

Exodus, CHAPTER 23. (n.d.). USCCB. Retrieved October 2, 2025, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/exodus/23? 

Matthew, CHAPTER 18. (n.d.). USCCB. Retrieved October 2, 2025, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/matthew/18?1 

Meditation on Matthew 18:1-5, 10. (n.d.). Word Among Us. Retrieved October 2, 2025, from https://wau.org/meditations/2025/10/01/1399013/ 

Psalms, PSALM 91 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved October 2, 2025, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/91?1 

Rohr, R. (n.d.). Daily Meditations — Center for Action and Contemplation. CAC.org. Retrieved October 2, 2025, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/gospel-to-life-and-life-to-gospel/ 

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Shirley, N. (n.d.). Daily Reflection. Creighton Online Ministries: Home. Retrieved October 2, 2025, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/daily-reflections/daily-reflection-october-2-2025