Family and Faith

The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today, The Solemnity of Saint Joseph, Spouse of the Blessed Virgin Mary, challenge us to replace our attention to the customs of human origin with the Way that is defined by our relationship with God.

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The Reading from the Second Book of Samuel presents The Oracle of Nathan.

* [7:8–16] The message Nathan delivers to David, called the Dynastic Oracle, is prompted by David’s intention to build a house (i.e., a temple) for the Lord, like David’s own house (i.e., palace) of cedar. David is told, in effect, not to bother building a house for the Lord; rather, the Lord will make a house for him—a dynasty, the House of David. Not only will he have descendants (v. 12) who will sit upon the throne of Israel (v. 13), their rule will last forever (vv. 13, 16); and even if they transgress the Lord’s commands, the line of David will never be removed from kingship as Saul was (cf. 1 Sm 13; 15). The oracle establishes the Davidic king as standing in relationship to the Lord as a son to a father (v. 14; cf. Ps 2:7; 89:27). The Dynastic Oracle, with cognate texts in the Scriptures, is the basis for Jewish expectations of an anointed king (1 Sm 12:3, 5), son of David (Mt 21:9); cf. Acts 2:30; Heb 1:5.

* [7:13] He it is: Solomon, in the event.

* [7:16] The unconditional promise made here, and reflected in Ps 89:34–35, stands in contrast to the tradition in Ps 132:12, where the continuation of the line of David depends on their fidelity to the Lord; cf. also 1 Kgs 2:4; 6:12; 8:25. (2 Samuel, CHAPTER 7 | USCCB, n.d.)

Psalm 89 proclaims how the Davidic king became king of earthly kings.

* [Psalm 89] The community laments the defeat of the Davidic king, to whom God promised kingship as enduring as the heavens (Ps 89:2–5). The Psalm narrates how God became king of the divine beings (Ps 89:6–9) and how the Davidic king became king of earthly kings (Ps 89:20–38). Since the defeat of the king calls into question God’s promise, the community ardently prays God to be faithful to the original promise to David (Ps 89:39–52). (Psalms, PSALM 89 | USCCB, n.d.)

The Reading from the Letter to the Romans is an expanded treatment of the significance of Abraham’s faith.

 

[4:1–25] This is an expanded treatment of the significance of Abraham’s faith, which Paul discusses in Gal 3:6–18; see notes there. (Romans, CHAPTER 4 | USCCB, n.d.)

The Gospel of Matthew presents The Birth of Jesus.

* [1:18–25] This first story of the infancy narrative spells out what is summarily indicated in Mt 1:16. The virginal conception of Jesus is the work of the Spirit of God. Joseph’s decision to divorce Mary is overcome by the heavenly command that he take her into his home and accept the child as his own. The natural genealogical line is broken but the promises to David are fulfilled; through Joseph’s adoption the child belongs to the family of David. Matthew sees the virginal conception as the fulfillment of Is 7:14.

* [1:18] Betrothed to Joseph: betrothal was the first part of the marriage, constituting a man and woman as husband and wife. Subsequent infidelity was considered adultery. The betrothal was followed some months later by the husband’s taking his wife into his home, at which time normal married life began.

* [1:19] A righteous man: as a devout observer of the Mosaic law, Joseph wished to break his union with someone whom he suspected of gross violation of the law. It is commonly said that the law required him to do so, but the texts usually given in support of that view, e.g., Dt 22:20–21 do not clearly pertain to Joseph’s situation. Unwilling to expose her to shame: the penalty for proved adultery was death by stoning; cf. Dt 22:21–23.

* [1:20] The angel of the Lord: in the Old Testament a common designation of God in communication with a human being. In a dream: see Mt 2:13, 19, 22. These dreams may be meant to recall the dreams of Joseph, son of Jacob the patriarch (Gn 37:5–11, 19). A closer parallel is the dream of Amram, father of Moses, related by Josephus (Antiquities 2, 9, 3; (par.) 212, 215–16).

* [1:21] Jesus: in first-century Judaism the Hebrew name Joshua (Greek Iēsous) meaning “Yahweh helps” was interpreted as “Yahweh saves.”

* [1:23] God is with us: God’s promise of deliverance to Judah in Isaiah’s time is seen by Matthew as fulfilled in the birth of Jesus, in whom God is with his people. The name Emmanuel is alluded to at the end of the gospel where the risen Jesus assures his disciples of his continued presence, “…I am with you always, until the end of the age” (Mt 28:20). (Matthew, CHAPTER 1 | USCCB, n.d.)

The Gospel of Luke presents The Boy Jesus in the Temple.

* [2:41–52] This story’s concern with an incident from Jesus’ youth is unique in the canonical gospel tradition. It presents Jesus in the role of the faithful Jewish boy, raised in the traditions of Israel, and fulfilling all that the law requires. With this episode, the infancy narrative ends just as it began, in the setting of the Jerusalem temple.

* [2:49] I must be in my Father’s house: this phrase can also be translated, “I must be about my Father’s work.” In either translation, Jesus refers to God as his Father. His divine sonship, and his obedience to his heavenly Father’s will, take precedence over his ties to his family. (Luke, CHAPTER 2 | USCCB, n.d.)

Rev. Jim Caime, SJ, comments that Matthew introduces Joseph in an interesting way: “Joseph, the husband of Mary.” Not for accomplishments or titles, but for the relationships entrusted to him: husband, guardian, father. He suspects we remember one another by both the lives we have lived and the relationships we have shared.

March 19 also happens to be my grandmother’s birthday. Remembering Joseph today makes me think of her — and of my parents and other relatives whose faith was steady, quiet, and deeply human. I remember their wise words, the little quips and family stories, and yes, even some of the sharper words spoken in moments of anger. But over time, forgiveness and acceptance have a way of bringing healing and perspective.

Joseph never speaks in the Gospels. Yet somehow his silence says a great deal. Perhaps holiness often looks like this: quietly listening, faithfully loving, and simply taking the next step God places before us (Caime, n.d.)

Don Schwager quotes “The character of Joseph”, from a homily by Bernard of Clairvaux, 1090-1153

"Joseph's character and qualities can be deduced from the fact that God honored him with the title of father, and, although his doing so was a mere matter of convenience, this was what he was known as and believed to be. Joseph's own name, which as you know means "increase", supplies further indications. Call to mind the great patriarch of old who was sold into Egypt, and you will realize that it was not only his name that our saint received but also his chastity, innocence, and grace. His brothers' envy had caused the earlier Joseph to be sold and taken to Egypt, thus symbolizing the selling of Christ: the later Joseph carried Christ into Egypt, fleeing before Herod's envy... The first Joseph had the gift of interpreting dreams: the second was given a revelation of the divine plan and a share in its accomplishment. Joseph the patriarch stored up grain, not for himself but for all the people: our Joseph was given custody of the living bread from heaven to keep safe both for himself and the whole world. There is no doubt that the Joseph to whom the Savior's mother was engaged was a good and faithful man. He was, I say, the wise and faithful steward whom the Lord appointed to support his mother and care for himself in childhood, singling him out for his complete reliability to help him with his momentous plan." (Hom. 2 super Missus est, 11.16: PL 183, 69-70) (Schwager, n.d.)

Friar Jude Winkler comments on the Promise of a dynasty to Nathan. Previously God had chosen leaders of the people in a charismatic way. Now he initiates a royal family and Jesus, of this family is the Eternal King  and as His descendants we are children of Abraham as we believe as Abraham that “One who trusts is made righteous.” The choice of Joseph as a righteous man, originally meant keeping the Law to the letter. As such he might have had his betrothed, Mary stoned, but in a dream, appropriate connection to Joseph the Dreamer, he is instructed to take care of Mary and the child and thereby "righteousness” is redefined as being compassionate. The baby “Yeshua “ “Yahweh saves” is lost in the Temple, in the Gospel from Luke, and Mary and Joseph return to Jerusalem and search for three days before finding Him in the Temple. Jesus showed instruction and shared a profound knowledge of the Law. Where is the Love? This is one story of Jesus as a man and Luke is saying Jesus became a Man and knew he was the Son of God was getting about His Father’s business.

The Word Among Us Meditation on Matthew 1:16, 18-21, 24 invites us to consider how we can learn from Joseph’s response to Mary’s seeming betrayal.

First, be honest with God. As Joseph took time before making a decision, he surely brought the reality of the situation to the Lord in prayer. There, he considered the commands of God’s law along with his love for Mary. Similarly, you can tell God about your situation, including any hurt or anger you may be feeling toward the other person or even toward the Lord.

Second, remain open to God. Even as you are deciding how to handle the situation before you, keep in mind that God may want to lead you in a different direction. Like Joseph, be brave and humble enough to change course.

Be honest. Remain open. Do this, and you can trust that God will lead you. He will give you the wisdom you are asking for. And even better, he will give you a heart of love for the people in your life.

“St. Joseph, pray that I may trust in God even when I’m hurt or unsure about what to do.” (Meditation on Matthew 1:16, 18-21, 24, n.d.)

Fr. Richard Rohr, OFM, points out how honor-and-shame systems play out around and within us today. One of the best ways to study Scripture is to use the lens of cultural anthropology; in other words, to learn about the social setting in which Jesus lived and the problems with which he was dealing. 

What we find is that the culture of his time was overwhelmingly dominated by an honor-and-shame system largely based on externals. In truth, we still live that way in the United States and Western Europe, although we pretend we don’t.

A transformed believer knows that their stable core dignity is something that God gratuitously gives from the moment of conception. Each of us is inherently, objectively, totally, and forever a child of God. We cannot gain or lose that by any achievement or failure whatsoever. God doesn’t participate in the honor-and-shame system.

In most honor-and-shame systems, which are almost always grounded in culturally male values, a “true man” always seeks the best, the top, and the most in terms of roles, power, status, and possessions. Jesus tried to free us from all these traps. Throughout the Gospels, we find numerous teachings promoting downward mobility. The most familiar of these may be, “The last shall be first, and the first shall be last” (Matthew 20:16), and Jesus’s consistent honoring of the least, the outsider, the sinner, and the physically or mentally challenged.

Some form of the honor-and-shame system is seen in almost all of history. In such a system, there is immense social pressure to follow “the rules.” If a person doesn’t follow the rules, they are not honorable and no longer deserve respect. And anyone who shows such a “shameful” person respect is also considered dishonorable. (Rohr, n.d.)

We invite the Spirit to guide our contemplation of the Way to accept the model of Joseph and choose to make compassion and care the basis of our righteousness and mission.

References

Caime, J. (n.d.). Joseph Never Speaks. Creighton Online Ministries: Home. Retrieved March 19, 2026, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/daily-reflections/daily-reflection-march-19-2026 

Luke, CHAPTER 2 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 19, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/luke/2?41 

Matthew, CHAPTER 1 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 19, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/matthew/1?16 

Meditation on Matthew 1:16, 18-21, 24. (n.d.). Word Among Us. Retrieved March 19, 2026, from https://wau.org/meditations/2026/03/18/1520771/ 

Psalms, PSALM 89 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 19, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/89?2 

Rohr, R. (n.d.). Daily Meditations — Center for Action and Contemplation. Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved March 19, 2026, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/systems-of-honor-and-shame-today/ 

Romans, CHAPTER 4 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 19, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/romans/4 

Schwager, D. (n.d.). Joseph Did as the Angel Commanded Him. Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations – Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved March 19, 2026, from https://www.dailyscripture.net/daily-meditation/ 

2 Samuel, CHAPTER 7 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 19, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/2samuel/7?4 

Restored to Joy

The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today invite us to consider the need of faith in times when Jesus’ promise of renewal of our society seems to be distant and we are distracted by wars and self aggrandizement. 

Joy and Restoration

The Reading from the Prophet Isaiah envisions A World Renewed.

* [65:17–18] The new creation (cf. 66:22) is described with apocalyptic exuberance: long life, material prosperity, and so forth. As the former events in 43:18 are to be forgotten, so also the new creation wipes out memory of the first creation. (Isaiah, CHAPTER 65 | USCCB, n.d.)

Psalm 30 is an individual thanksgiving in four parts.

* [Psalm 30] An individual thanksgiving in four parts: praise and thanks for deliverance and restoration (Ps 30:2–4); an invitation to others to join in (Ps 30:5–6); a flashback to the time before deliverance (Ps 30:7–11); a return to praise and thanks (Ps 30:12). Two sets of images recur: 1) going down, death, silence; 2) coming up, life, praising. God has delivered the psalmist from one state to the other. (Psalms, PSALM 30 | USCCB, n.d.)

The Gospel of John proclaims Jesus’ Return to Galilee and a Second Sign at Cana.

* [4:43–54] Jesus’ arrival in Cana in Galilee; the second sign. This section introduces another theme, that of the life-giving word of Jesus. It is explicitly linked to the first sign (Jn 2:11). The royal official believes (Jn 4:50). The natural life given his son is a sign of eternal life.

* [4:44] Probably a reminiscence of a tradition as in Mk 6:4. Cf. Gospel of Thomas 4:31: “No prophet is acceptable in his village, no physician heals those who know him.”

* [4:46–54] The story of the cure of the royal official’s son may be a third version of the cure of the centurion’s son (Mt 8:5–13) or servant (Lk 7:1–10). Cf. also Mt 15:21–28; Mk 7:24–30. (John, CHAPTER 4 | USCCB, n.d.)

Rev. Anish Kochanichottil, SJ, comments that perhaps we can reflect on our own response to suffering. It is often easier to respond to the needs of someone standing right in front of us than to the struggles of people who live far away or whose pain seems distant from our daily lives. In many ways, today’s readings encourage us to recognize that God’s healing is not limited to the distant future.

While the ultimate promise of restoration lies in God’s eternal kingdom, signs of God’s healing love are already present in our world. Prayers of our loved ones and friends for us, the resilience of the human body, supportive communities, and the countless small blessings that sustain daily life can all be seen as gifts that reflect God’s care for humanity. 

The readings also invite us to ask a deeper question: how strong would our faith remain if these blessings were taken away? Many people around the world face suffering, unrest, poverty, and illness despite their prayers. The season of Lent challenges us to examine our faith in light of these realities. It calls us not only to gratitude for the blessings we enjoy but also to solidarity with those who struggle. (Kochanichottil, n.d.)

Don Schwager quotes “Christ our physician,” by Augustine of Hippo, 354-430 A.D.

"God sent the human race a physician, a savior, One Who healed without charging a fee. Christ also came to reward those who would be healed by Him. Christ heals the sick, and He makes a gift to those whom He heals. And the gift that He makes is Himself!" (excerpt from Sermon 102,2) (Schwager, n.d.)

Friar Jude Winkler was not available at publication time.

The Word Among Us Meditation on John 4:43-54 comments that Jesus wants us to bring our needs to him. But he wants us to go beyond thinking of him only as a last resort when our back is against a wall. He wants us to find ongoing healing and transformation in his friendship.

So go deeper with your faith today. Perhaps you are concerned about a strained relationship, a dead-end job, or a health issue. Bring your need before Jesus. If you feel as if your faith is being tested, imitate the royal official and persist. Take a concrete step of faith, and let Jesus draw you closer to himself. Then add your story of deepening faith to Jesus’ ever-expanding list of marvels and wonders.

“Jesus, as I come to you in my need, lead me to deeper faith and a growing friendship with you.” (Meditation on John 4:43-54, n.d.)

Fr. Richard Rohr, OFM, describes how the early church followed Jesus’s practice of honoring universal human dignity. In New Testament times, shame and honor were in fact moral values that people felt compelled to follow. If a situation called for retaliation, one must retaliate. Not to retaliate would have been considered immoral, because it would have meant abandoning the honor of the individual, their family, and maybe their entire village. For Jesus to say, “Do not retaliate,” was to subvert the whole honor-and-shame system. It is one of the strongest arguments people can make that Jesus taught nonviolence.

Once challenged to live outside their cultural systems, Jesus’s listeners were given a new place to find their identity: in God. Who we are in God is who we are. That’s the end of ups and downs. Our value no longer depends upon whether our family or village likes us, whether we’re good-looking, wealthy, or obedient to the laws. Jesus’s message is incredibly subversive in an honor-and-shame society. Yet, as he takes away their old foundations, he offers a new, more solid one: neither shame-based nor guilt-based, but based in who they—and we—are in God. [2] (Rohr, n.d.)

We rely on the Wisdom of the Spirit to guide our understanding of joy as followers of Christ who are called to restore love and dignity based on our essence as children of God and not as advocates for a world view that restores inequality and persecution.

References

Isaiah, CHAPTER 65 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 16, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/isaiah/65?17 

John, CHAPTER 4 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 16, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/john/4?43 

Kochanichottil, A. (n.d.). Daily Reflections. Creighton Online Ministries: Home. Retrieved March 16, 2026, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/daily-reflections/daily-reflection-march-16-2026 

Meditation on John 4:43-54. (n.d.). Word Among Us. Retrieved March 16, 2026, from https://wau.org/meditations/2026/03/16/1519759/ 

Psalms, PSALM 30 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 16, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/30? 

Rohr, R. (n.d.). A Divine Identity. CAC.org. Retrieved March 16, 2026, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/a-divine-identity/ 

Schwager, D. (n.d.). Jesus - the Divine Physician. Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations – Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved March 16, 2026, from https://www.dailyscripture.net/daily-meditation/