Providence Prayer and Forgiveness

The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary invite us to seek and accept the support of God through prayer and forgiveness of our debts as we also forgive our debtors.

Prayer for Forgiveness

The Reading from the Book of Daniel proclaims the Prayer of Azariah

* [3:24–90] These verses are additions to the Aramaic text of Daniel, translated from the Greek form of the book. They were probably first composed in Hebrew or Aramaic, but are no longer extant in the original language. The Roman Catholic Church has always regarded them as part of the canonical Scriptures.

* [3:25] Azariah: i.e., Abednego; cf. Dn 1:7. (“Daniel, CHAPTER 3 | USCCB,” n.d.)

Psalm 25 mixes ardent pleas with expressions of confidence in God.

* [Psalm 25] A lament. Each verse begins with a successive letter of the Hebrew alphabet. Such acrostic Psalms are often a series of statements only loosely connected. The psalmist mixes ardent pleas (Ps 25:1–2, 16–22) with expressions of confidence in God who forgives and guides. (“Psalms, PSALM 25 | USCCB,” n.d.)

In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus teaches forgiveness with The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant.

* [18:21–35] The final section of the discourse deals with the forgiveness that the disciples are to give to their fellow disciples who sin against them. To the question of Peter how often forgiveness is to be granted (Mt 18:21), Jesus answers that it is to be given without limit (Mt 18:22) and illustrates this with the parable of the unmerciful servant (Mt 18:23–34), warning that his heavenly Father will give those who do not forgive the same treatment as that given to the unmerciful servant (Mt 18:35). Mt 18:21–22 correspond to Lk 17:4; the parable and the final warning are peculiar to Matthew. That the parable did not originally belong to this context is suggested by the fact that it really does not deal with repeated forgiveness, which is the point of Peter’s question and Jesus’ reply.

* [18:22] Seventy-seven times: the Greek corresponds exactly to the LXX of Gn 4:24. There is probably an allusion, by contrast, to the limitless vengeance of Lamech in the Genesis text. In any case, what is demanded of the disciples is limitless forgiveness.

* [18:24] A huge amount: literally, “ten thousand talents.” The talent was a unit of coinage of high but varying value depending on its metal (gold, silver, copper) and its place of origin. It is mentioned in the New Testament only here and in Mt 25:14–30.

* [18:26] Pay you back in full: an empty promise, given the size of the debt.

* [18:28] A much smaller amount: literally, “a hundred denarii.” A denarius was the normal daily wage of a laborer. The difference between the two debts is enormous and brings out the absurdity of the conduct of the Christian who has received the great forgiveness of God and yet refuses to forgive the relatively minor offenses done to him.

* [18:34] Since the debt is so great as to be unpayable, the punishment will be endless.

* [18:35] The Father’s forgiveness, already given, will be withdrawn at the final judgment for those who have not imitated his forgiveness by their own. (“Matthew, CHAPTER 18 | USCCB,” n.d.)

Kimberly Grassmeyer shares thoughts about Jesus telling us that we must forgive our brethren not seven times, but seventy-seven times, as in today’s Gospel lesson.

Forgiveness asks only that we clear OUR hearts.  The ‘other’ then has their own decision to make, in terms of what they choose to do with our forgiveness.

Jesus wants to help us clear our hearts of such pain.  God’s promise of love is actualized when we can lay down the burden of anger, hatred, or frustration, even when the pain of a physical loss, injury, or death are the outcome requiring a compassionate response. NOT forgiving can deepen and prolong the pain we already carry.  True forgiveness can heal it.  Jesus is asking us to forgive, always, as he so eloquently did on the Cross.  I pray that with God’s help, I’ll be able to meet that call each and every time. Amen. (Grassmeyer, n.d.)

Don Schwager quotes “A daily remedy for our sins,” by Augustine of Hippo, 354-430 A.D.

"Forgive us our debts as we also forgive our debtors. Let us say this sentence with sincerity, because it is an alms in itself. Sins that oppress and bury us cannot be termed trifles! What is more minute than drops of rain? Yet they fill the rivers. What is more minute than grains of wheat? Yet they fill the barns. You note the fact that these sins are rather small, but you do not take note that there are many of them. In any case, God has given us a daily remedy for them." (excerpt from Sermon 205,1) (Schwager, n.d.)

 

Friar Jude Winkler notes the hymn in the Book of Daniel is proclaimed when the young men including Azariah are thrown into the furnace and need God’s intervention. In Matthew’s Gospel, Peter asks about forgiving an infinite number of times and Jesus cites that there is no limit for forgiveness. God has forgiven us and we forgive others because of their need and we recognize their brokenness. Friar Jude comments that we may have to keep some toxic people at arm’s length. He cites the observation that resentment is poison for us as Nelson Mandella knew and warned us against.

The Word Among Us Meditation on Daniel 3:25, 34-43 comments that in this dangerous situation, Azariah does what he has always done, in good times and bad: he turns to the Lord and prays. His habit of praying in every situation has become so ingrained in him that he naturally turns to prayer even in the most dire circumstances. So let’s use this prayer as a model for ourselves.

Like Azariah, we should always start our prayer with God himself.

Like Azariah, we should confess our wrongdoing and repent for ourselves and on behalf of God’s people.

Third, Azariah promises that Israel will “follow [God] unreservedly.” 

Finally, Azariah asks God to bless his people. 

May we all follow Azariah’s example as we come to the Lord in prayer in good times and in bad!

“Lord, teach me to pray, especially when it is difficult.” (“Meditation on Daniel 3:25, 34-43,” n.d.)

Fr. Richard Rohr, OFM, introduces Author Barbara Brown Taylor who describes the suffering we experience when we live from a sense of disconnection.

Repentance begins with the decision to return to relationship: to accept our God-given place in community, and to choose a way of life that increases life for all members of that community. Needless to say, this often involves painful changes, which is why most of us prefer remorse to repentance. We would rather say, “I’m sorry, I’m so sorry, I feel really, really awful about what I have done” than actually start doing things differently.…

“All sins are attempts to fill voids,” wrote the French philosopher Simone Weil. Because we cannot stand the God-shaped hole inside of us, we try stuffing it full of all sorts of things, but it refuses to be filled. It rejects all substitutes…. It is the holy of holies inside of us, which only God may fill….

I do not believe that sin is the enemy we often make it out to be, at least not when we recognize it and name it as such. When we see how we have turned away from God, then and only then do we have what we need to begin turning back. Sin is our only hope, the fire alarm that wakes us up to the possibility of true repentance. (Rohr, 2025)

We ask the Spirit to guide our wisdom in our prayer, contemplation, and action to understand and act to be people of freedom through forgiveness.

References

Daniel, CHAPTER 3 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 10, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/daniel/3?25 

Grassmeyer, K. (n.d.). Daily Reflection. Creighton Online Ministries: Home. Retrieved March 10, 2026, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/daily-reflections/daily-reflection-march-10-2026 

Matthew, CHAPTER 18 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 10, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/matthew/18?21 

Meditation on Daniel 3:25, 34-43. (n.d.). Word Among Us. https://wau.org/meditations/2026/03/10/1515595/ 

Psalms, PSALM 25 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved March 10, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/25?4 

Rohr, R. (2025, March 13). Disconnected Living. Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved March 10, 2026, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/disconnected-living/ 

Schwager, D. (n.d.). How Often Shall I Forgive? Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations – Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved March 10, 2026, from https://www.dailyscripture.net/daily-meditation/ 

Beginning with Forgiveness

The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today contrast our comfort with repetition of rules of behaviour with the challenge of knowing deeper love through giving and accepting forgiveness.

Road to Forgiveness

The reading from the Book of Joshua describes Crossing the Jordan

* [3:15] Season of the harvest: toward the end of March and the beginning of April, when the barley and other crops that grew during the rainy season of winter were reaped. The crossing took place “on the tenth day of the first month” of the Hebrew year, which began with the first new moon after the spring equinox; cf. 4:19. At this time of the year the Jordan would be swollen as a result of the winter rains and the melting snow of Mount Hermon.

* [3:16] Some scholars have suggested that this account may reflect an annual ritual reenactment of the event near the sanctuary of Gilgal. (Joshua, CHAPTER 3 | USCCB, n.d.)

Psalm 114 celebrates Israel’s escape from Egypt.

* [Psalm 114] A hymn celebrating Israel’s escape from Egypt, journey through the wilderness, and entry into the promised land, and the miracles of nature that bore witness to God’s presence in their midst. In the perspective of the Psalm, the people proceed directly from Egypt into the promised land (Ps 114:1–2). Sea and Jordan, which stood like soldiers barring the people from their land, flee before the mighty God as the earth recoils from the battle (Ps 114:3–4). The poet taunts the natural elements as one taunts defeated enemies (Ps 114:5–6). (Psalms, PSALM 114 | USCCB, n.d.)

In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus teaches the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant.

* [18:21–35] The final section of the discourse deals with the forgiveness that the disciples are to give to their fellow disciples who sin against them. To the question of Peter how often forgiveness is to be granted (Mt 18:21), Jesus answers that it is to be given without limit (Mt 18:22) and illustrates this with the parable of the unmerciful servant (Mt 18:23–34), warning that his heavenly Father will give those who do not forgive the same treatment as that given to the unmerciful servant (Mt 18:35). Mt 18:21–22 correspond to Lk 17:4; the parable and the final warning are peculiar to Matthew. That the parable did not originally belong to this context is suggested by the fact that it really does not deal with repeated forgiveness, which is the point of Peter’s question and Jesus’ reply.

* [18:22] Seventy-seven times: the Greek corresponds exactly to the LXX of Gn 4:24. There is probably an allusion, by contrast, to the limitless vengeance of Lamech in the Genesis text. In any case, what is demanded of the disciples is limitless forgiveness.

* [18:24] A huge amount: literally, “ten thousand talents.” The talent was a unit of coinage of high but varying value depending on its metal (gold, silver, copper) and its place of origin. It is mentioned in the New Testament only here and in Mt 25:14–30.

* [18:26] Pay you back in full: an empty promise, given the size of the debt.

* [18:28] A much smaller amount: literally, “a hundred denarii.” A denarius was the normal daily wage of a laborer. The difference between the two debts is enormous and brings out the absurdity of the conduct of the Christian who has received the great forgiveness of God and yet refuses to forgive the relatively minor offenses done to him.

* [18:34] Since the debt is so great as to be unpayable, the punishment will be endless.

* [18:35] The Father’s forgiveness, already given, will be withdrawn at the final judgment for those who have not imitated his forgiveness by their own. (Matthew, CHAPTER 18 | USCCB, n.d.)

Tom Lenz comments that Matthew’s Gospel has gotten him thinking more deeply about sin and forgiveness, in general. Growing up Catholic the notion of sin was (and still is) a “hot button” issue that has lots of charged emotions associated with it.

So, as I think about the notion of sin and the essential fundamental nature of connectedness, it helps me understand both sin and forgiveness. Sin, in whatever context, seems to make sense as an intentional movement away, while love in an intentional movement towards. When we sin, we have intentionally chosen to not be connected to another person, nature, or to ourselves. We no longer allow the flow of Love through the connectedness and therefore disconnect ourselves from God that exists in all things. But when we forgive, we open (or reopen) the flow of Love through our intentional connectedness. Through forgiveness we consciously make the decision to connect with the other and allow our hearts to again give and receive the Love that is God. This is why seventy-seven times (infinity) is the answer from Jesus to Peter. To do anything less would be to cut off the flow of Love/God within, between, and among us. (Lenz, 2025)

Don Schwager quotes “How often shall I forgive?” by Hilary of Poitiers (315-367 AD).

"When Peter asked him whether he should forgive his brother sinning against him up to seven times, the Lord replied, 'Not up to seven times but up to seventy times seven times'" In every way he teaches us to be like him in humility and goodness. In weakening and breaking the impulses of our rampant passions he strengthens us by the example of his leniency, by granting us in faith pardon of all our sins. For the vices of our nature did not merit pardon. Therefore all pardon comes from him. In fact, he pardons even those sins that remain in one after confession. The penalty to be paid through Cain was established at sevenfold, but that sin was against a man, against his brother Abel, to the point of murder (Genesis 4:8). But in Lamech the penalty was established at seventy times seven times (Genesis 4:24), and, as we believe, the penalty was established on those responsible for the Lord's Passion. But the Lord through the confession of believers grants pardon for this crime. By the gift of baptism he grants the grace of salvation to his revilers and persecutors. How much more is it necessary, he shows, that pardon be returned by us without measure or number. And we should not think how many times we forgive, but we should cease to be angry with those who sin against us, as often as the occasion for anger exists. Pardon's frequency shows us that in our case there is never a time for anger, since God pardons us for all sins in their entirety by his gift rather than by our merit. Nor should we be excused from the requirement of giving pardon that number of times [i.e., seventy times seven], since through the grace of the gospel God has granted us pardon without measure." (excerpt from ON MATTHEW 18.10) (Schwager, n.d.)

Friar Jude Winkler reflects on the texts of today. The Joshua reading tells of leading the people across the Jordan. In a parallel to leaving Egypt. God acts again with a miraculous deed. The Gospel addresses the question of “How often to forgive?” The perfect number, 7, and much more suggests there is no limit for forgiveness. Ignatius Loyola urges us to have the desire to forgive. Holding on to anger hurts ourselves. We forgive them because they need it. The parable tells of punishment for the servant who fails to forgive. Friar Jude asks “What gift of faith did they receive?” “Of the one who receives more, more is expected”.

Fr. Richard Rohr, OFM, describes how Paul’s understanding of Jesus’ death critiques both the conservatives and liberals of his day. Paul sees the Jews trying to create order in the world by obedience to law, tradition, and kinship ties. The Greeks attempt order through reason, understanding, logic, and education. Paul has a unique vantage point, with a foot in each world—as both a Jew and a Roman citizen.

Paul allows both conservatives and liberals to define wisdom in their own ways, yet he dares to call both inadequate and finally wrong. He believes that such worldviews will eventually fail people. He writes, “God has shown up human wisdom as folly” on the cross, and this is “an obstacle that the Jews cannot get over,” and which the gentiles or pagans think is simple “foolishness” (1 Corinthians 1:21–23). 

For Paul, the code words for nondual thinking, or true wisdom, are “foolishness” and “folly.” He says, in effect, “My thinking is foolishness to you, isn’t it?” Admittedly, it does not make sense unless we have confronted the mystery of the cross. Suffering, the “folly of the cross,” breaks down the dualistic mind. Why? Because on the cross, God took the worst thing, the killing of the God-human, and made it into the best thing, the very redemption of the world. The compassionate holding of essential meaninglessness or tragedy, as Jesus does on the cross, is the final and triumphant resolution of all the dualisms and dichotomies that we face in our own lives. We are thus “saved by the cross”! Does that now make ultimate sense?  (Rohr, n.d.)

We invoke the Spirit to assist as we ponder the paradox of forgiveness of those who have hurt us as the path to fullness of life in our journey.

References

Joshua, CHAPTER 3 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved August 14, 2025, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/joshua/3?7 

Lenz, T. (2025, August 14). Daily Reflection August 14, 2025 | Creighton Online Ministries. Creighton Online Ministries. Retrieved August 14, 2025, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/daily-reflections/daily-reflection-august-14-2025 

Matthew, CHAPTER 18 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved August 14, 2025, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/matthew/18?21 

Psalms, PSALM 114 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved August 14, 2025, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/114?1 

Rohr, R. (n.d.). The Mystery of the Cross. Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved August 14, 2025, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/the-mystery-of-the-cross/ 

Schwager, D. (n.d.). Lord, How Often Shall I Forgive My Brother? Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations – Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved August 14, 2025, from https://www.dailyscripture.net/daily-meditation/?ds_year=2025&date=aug14