Showing posts with label Micah. Show all posts
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Tuesday, July 21, 2026

The Family of Faith

 The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today invite us to ponder the understanding of our relationship to Christ as brothers and sisters in faith, hope, and love who continue His Way of relationship with all people.

Family and Faith



The Reading from the Prophet Micah is a prayer that God will care for the people as in ancient days.


* [7:1417] A prayer that God will care for the people as in ancient days (v. 14) is answered (vv. 1517) when the Lord promises to do marvelous things. The nations shall be afraid and turn to the Lord.

* [7:1820] The final lines of the book contain a hymn of praise for the incomparable God, who pardons sin and delights in mercy. Thus the remnant, those left after the exile, is confident in God’s compassion and in the ancient promises sworn to the ancestors. (Micah, CHAPTER 7 | USCCB, n.d.)


Psalm 85 presents a national lament reminding God of past favors and forgiveness.


* [Psalm 85] A national lament reminding God of past favors and forgiveness (Ps 85:24) and begging for forgiveness and grace now (Ps 85:58). A speaker represents the people who wait humbly with open hearts (Ps 85:910): God will be active on their behalf (Ps 85:1113). The situation suggests the conditions of Judea during the early postexilic period, the fifth century B.C.; the thoughts are similar to those of postexilic prophets (Hg 1:511; 2:69). (Psalms, PSALM 85 | USCCB, n.d.)


In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus proclaims The True Family of Jesus.


* [12:4650] See Mk 3:3135. Matthew has omitted Mk 3:2021 which is taken up in Mk 3:31 (see note on Mt 12:2232), yet the point of the story is the same in both gospels: natural kinship with Jesus counts for nothing; only one who does the will of his heavenly Father belongs to his true family.

* [12:47] This verse is omitted in some important textual witnesses, including Codex Sinaiticus (original reading) and Codex Vaticanus. (Matthew, CHAPTER 12 | USCCB, n.d.)



Don Schwager quotes “My mother through faith,” by Gregory the Great (540-604 AD).


"If someone can become the brother of the Lord by coming to faith, we must ask how one can become also his mother. We must realize that the one who is Christ's brother and sister by believing becomes his mother by preaching. It is as though one brings forth the Lord and infuses him in the hearts of one's listeners. And that person becomes his mother if through one's voice the love of the Lord is generated in the mind of his neighbor. (excerpt from FORTY GOSPEL HOMILIES 3.2) (Schwager, n.d.)



Friar Jude Winkler comments that the Prophet Micah speaks the Lord as shepherd of Israel with a staff that indicates the original territories will be returned to Israel. Just as the people can see the faithfulness of the promises, God is always faithful. Matthew declares the mother and brothers of Jesus are those who do the will of the Father. We belong as brothers and sisters of Jesus by faith more than blood. Catholics consider the “brothers and sisters” in the Gospel are cousins often as close as siblings in Jesus' time. Orthodox Christians accept they are half brothers and sisters through the remarriage of Joseph. Some Protestant communities hold they are full brothers and sisters. Friar Jude notes that Roman Catholics hold to an ancient tradition of Jesus as the only son of Mary.





The Word Among Us Meditation on Micah 7:14-15, 18-20 comments that in the centuries after Micah, God did show the people marvelous signs when they cried out to him. But all these signs found their ultimate fulfillment in Jesus.


The signs are all around. And like the signs that Micah prayed for, they are all meant to point you to the greatest and most powerful of all signs: the sign of a Savior who gave up his very life to set you free.


God has done wonderful things for us. May we never grow weary of recalling them. And may we never forget his most powerful marvel: the sign of his cross!


“Lord, I am amazed at all that you have done and continue to do in my life!” (Meditation on Micah 7:14-15, 18-20, n.d.)





Father Richard Rohr, OFM, recounts how he came to know the work of Thomas Merton (1915–1968). Amidst the societal disruptions of the 1960s, it was not enough for him to simply pray. He also devoted himself to action—writing, teaching, and collaborating with others—though he never lost his deep yearning for solitude and contemplation. [1]



The monastic flight from the world [or what Father Richard calls ‘the system’] into the desert is not a mere refusal to know anything about the world, but a total rejection of all standards of judgment which imply attachment to a history of delusion, egoism and sin … a definitive refusal to participate in those activities which have no other fruit than to prolong the reign of untruth, greed, cruelty and arrogance…. 


Therefore it seems to me to be a solemn obligation of conscience at this moment of history to take the positions which are … in vital relation with the obligations I assumed when I took my monastic vows. To have a vow of poverty seems to me illusory if I do not in some way identify myself with the cause of people who are denied their rights and forced, for the most part, to live in abject misery. To have a vow of obedience seems to me to be absurd if it does not imply a deep concern for the most fundamental of all expressions of God’s will: the love of [God’s] truth and of our neighbor. [2]


References:

[1] Adapted from Richard Rohr, The Art of Letting Go: Living the Wisdom of Saint Francis, (Sounds True, 2010).


[2] Adapted from Thomas Merton, Seeds of Destruction (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 1980), xiii, xiv–xv, xv–xvi. (Rohr, n.d.)


We implore the Spirit to inform our faith and action with the understanding of family as expressed by Jesus to his society and in our mission to act as members of a community that seeks to do the “will of the Father”.



References

Matthew, CHAPTER 12 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 21, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/matthew/12

Meditation on Micah 7:14-15, 18-20. (n.d.). Word Among Us. Retrieved July 21, 2026, from https://wau.org/meditations/2026/07/21/1627733/ 

Micah, CHAPTER 7 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 21, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/micah/7

Psalms, PSALM 85 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 21, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/85

Rohr, R. (n.d.). Thomas Merton: A Monk in Action. Thomas Merton: A Monk in Action. Retrieved July 21, 2026, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/thomas-merton-a-monk-in-action/ 

Schwager, D. (n.d.). Who Are My Brothers and Sisters? Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations – Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved July 21, 2026, from https://www.dailyscripture.net/daily-meditation/ 


Monday, July 20, 2026

Signs of the Way of Love

 The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today present our desire to understand what signs, if any, guide us to understand what God requires from His people.

Sign of Hope


The Reading from the Prophet Micah identifies three actions that the LORD requires of us.


* [6:15] The Lord, through the prophet, initiates a legal case against the people. The initial calls (vv. 12) signal the beginning of a trial, and the proclamation that the Lord intends to enter into a legal dispute with Israel. One would expect accusations to follow such an introduction, but instead the Lord speaks in self-defense, reciting mighty acts done in behalf of Israel (vv. 35).

* [6:5] The Lord calls for the people to remember the saving events of the past, from the encounters with Balak and Balaam (Nm 22:23) during the wandering in the wilderness to the entrance into the promised land (“from Shittim to Gilgal,” Jos 35).

* [6:68] These verses continue the previous unit (6:15), the dialogue between the Lord and the people in the pattern of a trial. The Lord has initiated proceedings against them, and they ask how to re-establish the broken relationship with God (vv. 67), and are given an answer (v. 8). The form of the passage borrows from a priestly liturgical pattern. When worshipers came to the temple, they inquired of the priest concerning the appropriate offering or sacrifice, and the priest answered them (see Ps 15; 24; Is 1:1017; Am 5:2124).

* [6:7] The questions reach their climax with the possibility of child sacrifice, a practice known in antiquity (cf. 2 Kgs 16:3; 21:6).

* [6:8] To do justice refers to human behavior in relationship to others. To love goodness refers to the kind of love and concern which is at the heart of the covenant between the Lord and Israel; it is persistently faithful. To walk humbly with your God means to listen carefully to the revealed will of God. (Micah, CHAPTER 6 | USCCB, n.d.)


Psalm 50 proclaims that what God really wants is the sacrifice of praise accompanied by genuine obedience.


* [Psalm 50] A covenant lawsuit stating that the sacrifice God really wants is the sacrifice of praise accompanied by genuine obedience (cf. Mi 6:18). It begins with a theophany and the summoning of the court (Ps 50:16). Then in direct address God explains what is required of the faithful (Ps 50:715), rebukes the hypocritical worshiper (Ps 50:1621), and concludes with a threat and a promise (Ps 50:2223; cf. Is 1:1920). (Psalms, PSALM 50 | USCCB, n.d.)


In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus responds to the Demand for a Sign from the scribes and Pharisees.


* [12:3842] This section is mainly from Q (see Lk 11:2932). Mk 8:1112, which Matthew has followed in Mt 16:14, has a similar demand for a sign. The scribes and Pharisees refuse to accept the exorcisms of Jesus as authentication of his claims and demand a sign that will end all possibility of doubt. Jesus’ response is that no such sign will be given. Because his opponents are evil and see him as an agent of Satan, nothing will convince them.

* [12:38] Teacher: see note on Mt 8:19. In Mt 16:1 the request is for a sign “from heaven” (Mk 8:11). (Matthew, CHAPTER 12 | USCCB, n.d.)


Desiree Nownes observes that we seek signs in our lives to tell us whether we are doing the right thing or whether we should choose one thing over another. We ask for guidance and advice when troubling events occur. The unknown is as exciting as it is scary.


With the state of the world, I admit I am troubled and often ask for guidance in a world that seems to have forgotten that love and truth are not opposites but are in communion with one another. If love is the order from God, why do judgment and hate get a front seat to all the preachers on Sundays? God calls us to love, to forgive, to trust in faith, not by sight but by hope. I am renewed in my faith when I reflect on these teachings and readings from Christ’s path. Listen for God’s voice to speak to you and renew a heart full of caring and forgiveness. I faithfully pray for the hearts of men and women to turn to love and peace. Through these moments of reflection, may we all pray for a more Christ-like way of moving forward together.


Psalm 95 – If today you hear his voice, harden not your hearts. (Nownes, 2026)



Don Schwager quotes “The stumbling block of the cross,” from an anonymous early Christian teacher


"What is the sign of Jonah? The stumbling block of the cross. So it is not the disputers of knowledge who will be saved but those who believe true teaching. For the cross of Christ is indeed a stumbling block to those who dispute knowledge but salvation to those who believe. Paul testifies to this: 'But we, for our part, preach the crucified Christ - to the Jews indeed a stumbling block and to the Gentiles foolishness, but to those who are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ, the power of God and the wisdom of God' (1 Corinthians 1:23-24). Why do the Jews seek signs and the Greeks seek wisdom? God pointed to the sign of the stumbling block of the cross to both the Jews and the Greeks. Thus those who wish to find Christ not through faith but through wisdom will perish on the stumbling block of foolishness. Those who wish to know the Son of God not through faith but through a demonstration of signs will remain trapped in their disbelief, falling on the stumbling block of his death. It is no small wonder that the Jews, considering the death of Christ, thought he was merely a man, when even Christians - as they purport to be but really are not - because of his death are reluctant to declare the only begotten, the crucified, as incomparable majesty. (excerpt from INCOMPLETE WORK ON MATTHEW, HOMILY 30) (Schwager, n.d.)




Friar Jude Winkler comments on the texts for today. Micah speaks a plea that God makes in Hebrew or a “RIB” It is usually a law suit, God calls them to be witness to the trial coming but they turned to sin. How can they regain oneness with the Lord ? Micah simply advises three requirements: do right; love goodness; and walk humbly with God. Friar Jude suggests we start with simply “Be a good kind person”. In the Gospel of Matthew, the Pharisees ask Jesus for a sign as proof of His being the Messiah. Jesus cites the sign of Jonah as His response. Friar Jude offers two interpretations of this sign. The 3 days of Jonah in the belly of the whale are a sign of Jesus' three days in the tomb and the preaching and conversion of Nineveh. Pagans are converting in Matthew’s Gospel, written for a Jewish audience. This suggests the pagans are more ready to receive Christ than the Jews? Friar Jude notes that the pagan Queen of the South was seeking greater wisdom than the wisdom of Solomon. Everything that was said in the Hebrew Testament was referring to Jesus as Wisdom Incarnate.




The Word Among Us Meditation on Micah 6:1-4, 6-8 comments that from the beginning, God knew every situation we would face. He knew what our family would be like. He knew the struggles we would encounter growing up. Nothing in our life comes as a shock to him. No matter what our situation may be, his overflowing grace is always available to us.


So remember that no matter how complex the world becomes, God’s promises remain as simple as the day you were born. He has called you by name, and everything you need is found in him. Nothing brings him more joy than when you turn to him for guidance in every situation. He wants to walk with you every step. All he asks is that you walk humbly with him!


“Holy Spirit, teach me how to walk humbly with my Father.” (Meditation on Micah 6:1-4, 6-8, n.d.)



Father Richard Rohr, OFM, shares his deep respect and admiration for the Missionaries of Charity, the community of sisters founded by Mother Teresa (1910–1987) in Calcutta, India. He spent three days immersed in the life, spirit, and ministries of Mother Teresa’s Missionaries of Charity community at the motherhouse in Calcutta—a year after her death.


Through that experience, I finally met a “conservative” yet fully contemporary form of religious life that I could trust. The sisters were not rigid; rather, they were simply devoted women. They did not need security, answers, and order, as we see in most traditionalist movements in the West. In fact, they were willing to live without security, with very few answers to their questions of mind and heart, and amid almost total disorder. All in union—hour by hour—with God. They lived that amazing and rare combination of utter groundedness and constant risk-taking that always characterizes the true gospel.


The sisters don’t waste time fixing, controlling, or even needing to understand what is wrong with other people. Instead, they put all of their time and energy into letting God change them. From that transformed place, they serve and carry the pain of the world, which they are convinced is the pain of God. This is the synthesis on a communal level that I am always seeking. I have encountered it in many individuals, but hardly ever in public and social form. (Rohr, n.d.)


We contemplate the signs on our journey that point to the action that God offers to us to increase our Wisdom of the Divine Path to live our Baptismal anointing as priest, prophet, and leader. 



References

Matthew, CHAPTER 12 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 20, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/matthew/12

Meditation on Micah 6:1-4, 6-8. (n.d.). Word Among Us. Retrieved July 20, 2026, from https://wau.org/meditations/2026/07/20/1626981/ 

Micah, CHAPTER 6 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 20, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/micah/6

Nownes, D. (2026, July 20). Daily Reflection July 20, 2026 | Creighton Online Ministries. Creighton Online Ministries. Retrieved July 20, 2026, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/daily-reflections/daily-reflection-july-20-2026 

Psalms, PSALM 50 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 20, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/50

Rohr, R. (n.d.). Saint Teresa of Calcutta: A Mother to Many. Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved July 20, 2026, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/saint-teresa-of-calcutta-a-mother-to-many/ 

Schwager, D. (n.d.). An Adulterous Generation Seeks for a Sign. Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations – Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved July 20, 2026, from https://www.dailyscripture.net/daily-meditation/ 


Saturday, July 18, 2026

The Strength to be Meek

 The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today challenge us to pursue our efforts to make our environment more just and fair not through power and privilege but through the Beatitude promise that the “meek shall inherit the earth”.

Meek inherit the Earth



The Reading from the Prophet Micah presents an indictment of those who take land from the less powerful.


* [2:15] The cry “Ah” (hoy) begins a typical prophetic speech that is usually continued, as here (vv. 12), by a description of the addressees in terms of their unrighteous activities. This description is an indictment which gives the reasons for punishment announced to a particular group of people (vv. 35). The prophet spells out the crimes; the Lord announces the punishment, which corresponds to the crime: those who take the land of others will have their own land taken.

Those who plot iniquity and have the power to do it are wealthy landowners. The evil which they do consists in coveting the fields and houses of others and taking them.

* [2:2] To covet the “house” and other property of the neighbor was a violation of the Decalogue (Ex 20:17; 34:24; Dt 5:21).

The Lord, as owner of the earth, allotted the land by tribes and families to the people of Israel (Jos 1319). Losing one’s inheritance diminished one’s place in the community and threatened the family’s economic viability and existence. According to Micah, those who used their power to expand their estates at the expense of weaker Israelites took more than land from them: they were tampering with the divine order.

* [2:4] Those who take land from the less powerful will in turn have their land taken away by invaders. (Micah, CHAPTER 2 | USCCB, n.d.)



Psalm 10 proclaims arrogant scoundrels pursue the poor.


a. [10:2] Is 32:7.

b. [10:3] Ps 36:2.

c. [10:4] Ps 14:1; Jb 22:13; Is 29:15; Jer 5:12; Zep 1:12.

d. [10:7] Is 32:7; Rom 3:14.

e. [10:8] Ps 11:2; Jb 24:14.

f. [10:9] Ps 17:12; Prv 1:11; Jer 5:26.

g. [10:11] Ps 44:25; 64:6; 73:11; 94:7; Ez 9:9.

h. [10:14] Ps 31:8; 56:9; 2 Kgs 20:5; Is 25:8; Rev 7:17.

i. [10:14] Ex 22:2122. (Psalms, PSALM 10 | USCCB, n.d.)


The Gospel of Matthew is emphasizing the meekness of Jesus, The Chosen Servant.


* [12:1521] Matthew follows Mk 3:712 but summarizes his source in two verses (Mt 12:15, 16) that pick up the withdrawal, the healings, and the command for silence. To this he adds a fulfillment citation from the first Servant Song (Is 42:14) that does not correspond exactly to either the Hebrew or the LXX of that passage. It is the longest Old Testament citation in this gospel, emphasizing the meekness of Jesus, the Servant of the Lord, and foretelling the extension of his mission to the Gentiles.

* [12:15] Jesus’ knowledge of the Pharisees’ plot and his healing all are peculiar to Matthew.

* [12:19] The servant’s not contending is seen as fulfilled in Jesus’ withdrawal from the disputes narrated in Mt 12:114.

* [12:21] Except for a minor detail, Matthew here follows the LXX, although the meaning of the Hebrew (“the coastlands will wait for his teaching”) is similar. (Matthew, CHAPTER 12 | USCCB, n.d.)


Carol Zuegner comments that we too often decide the loudest voices are the ones we should listen to. There seems to be a shortage of compassion and empathy.


But in this loud and noisy world, I sometimes think that quietness will not prevail. Even now, writing this, I have to stop and take a deep breath. I remind myself there is good in the world, everywhere. You don’t even have to look very far to find it. We are so used to being bruised by the loudness and the response to be loud in return. Instead, let me look for goodness. Let me be the person who does good in the world in small ways and in big ways. 

In the Gospel, Jesus retreats, while still showing compassion to those who follow him. He cures people. He is there. 

 


Take a breath. There is good in the world. There is good in you and me. We have to remember to practice patience. To practice listening. To work on showing compassion even to ourselves when life becomes overwhelming. God is there. God is listening. 

 


My prayer today is that I remain steadfast with love and mercy. I pray for patience and empathy with those near and far from me. I pray with gratitude and one more deep breath. (Zuegher, 2026)



Don Schwager quotes “The Savior's meekness,” by John Chrysostom (347-407 AD).


"The prophet celebrated in advance both the Savior's meekness right alongside his unspeakable power. Thereby he opened to the Gentiles a great and effective door. Isaiah also foretold the ills that were to overtake the Jews. He foreknew the Son's oneness with the Father: 'Israel is my chosen, my soul has accepted him; I have put my Spirit upon him' (Isaiah 42:1). For it is not as an adversary that Christ transcends the law, as if he were an enemy of the Lawgiver, but as though he were of one mind with the Lawgiver and held to the very same purposes. Then, proclaiming the Lord's meekness, Isaiah said, 'He shall not cry nor lift up his voice' (Isaiah 42:20). For his desire indeed was to enable healing in their presence. But since they pushed him away, he did not contend any further against their opposition." (excerpt from THE GOSPEL OF MATTHEW, HOMILY 40.2.1) (Schwager, n.d.)



Friar Jude Winkler comments that Micah was a small town boy who hated big city values and the officials in his town who did evil to covet and steal land. He prophesied they would lose boundaries in the Hebrew sense of justice, “as the sin so the punishment”. It is based on letting us have the consequences of what we get when we sin. The Pharisees fulfill the passage of Isaiah 42 in their persecution of Jesus as the suffering servant. Matthew quotes Isaiah to show Jesus fulfills the prophecy. Jesus uses the Suffering Servant passages from Isaiah and the Son of Man titles from Daniel 7 to identify with His mission. Friar Jude notes the mysterious meek figure in Isaiah's suffering servant is fulfilled in Jesus.



The Word Among Us Meditation on Matthew 12:14-21 comments that we tend to equate meekness with gentleness, but it’s much more than that. Meekness involves the choice to do what is right, even when fear tempts us to cowardice or anger tells us to fight fire with fire. It’s the godly strength to persist, grounded in the knowledge that God is with us.


Jesus knew his mission, and he was confident enough in God’s presence with him to carry it out on his own terms. That mission was to preach, to heal, and to proclaim freedom for the oppressed. And that’s exactly what he did until the time had come for him to actively engage his opponents. And when he did, he did it not by crushing them but by offering his life for their salvation and the salvation of the world. He could have summoned legions of angels to save him from death, but in meekness, he endured death at the hands of sinners—out of love for them.


Jesus has given you the Spirit to help you fulfill your mission with the same meekness that he showed. How might he want you to grow in this virtue today?


“Lord, give me the strength to be meek.” (Meditation on Matthew 12:14-21, n.d.)



Father Richard Rohr, OFM, introduces peace activist and Orthodox Christian Jim Forest (1941–2022) who urges Christians to take seriously Jesus’s exhortation to stay close to those who suffer. He offers reflection questions about how we are practicing the Beatitudes.


In the Orthodox church, reflection on the beatitudes is often recommended as a way of preparing for confession and communion. Such reflection provides a framework for an examination of conscience about steps not yet taken in our effort to follow Christ:


  • Do I embrace poverty of spirit—or flee from it at the speed of light?
  • For whom have I been in mourning?
  • How meek am I in my response to the gospels?
  • In what ways am I hungry for righteousness?
  • How merciful am I regarding those who in some way have done me harm?
  • How pure is my heart and what keeps it so impure?
  • In what ways am I trying to purify my heart?
  • What are the divisions that intersect my life and in what ways am I responding to these divisions as a peacemaker?
  • What enemies do I love? For which enemies am I praying?
  • Whose threatened life am I trying to safeguard?
  • Do I accept persecution as a blessing—or do I avoid anything that might get me into trouble? [2] (Rohr, n.d.)


We seek Knowledge and Fortitude of the Spirit to live our relationships in practice of the blessing that comes from action to show the strength of meekness in our efforts to help people inherit a world of faith, hope, and love.



References

Matthew, CHAPTER 12 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Readings. Retrieved July 18, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/matthew/12

Meditation on Matthew 12:14-21. (n.d.). Word Among Us. Retrieved July 18, 2026, from https://wau.org/meditations/2026/07/18/1625292/ 

Micah, CHAPTER 2 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Bible Readings, Audio and Video Every Morning | USCCB. Retrieved July 18, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/micah/2?1 

Psalms, PSALM 10 | USCCB. (n.d.). Daily Scripture Readings. Retrieved July 18, 2026, from https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/10?1 

Rohr, R. (n.d.). The Beatitudes: Week Two: Weekly Summary. Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved July 18, 2026, from https://cac.org/daily-meditations/beatitudes-week-two-weekly-summary/ 

Schwager, D. (n.d.). Until Jesus Brings Justice to Victory. Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations – Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved July 18, 2026, from https://www.dailyscripture.net/daily-meditation/ 

Zuegher, C. (2026, July 18). Daily Reflection July 18, 2026 | Creighton Online Ministries. Creighton Online Ministries. Retrieved July 18, 2026, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/daily-reflections/daily-reflection-july-18-2026