Showing posts with label Ignatian indifference. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ignatian indifference. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 6, 2019

Knowing the Cost of Fulfillment

The texts from the Roman Catholic Lectionary today challenge us to live in love that brings us fulfillment through Ignatius like detachment from possessing people and things.
Attachment to possessions

The passage from the Letter to the Romans expresses Paul’s conviction that Love for one another fulfills the Law.
* [13:8–10] When love directs the Christian’s moral decisions, the interest of law in basic concerns, such as familial relationships, sanctity of life, and security of property, is safeguarded (Rom 13:9). Indeed, says Paul, the same applies to any other commandment (Rom 13:9), whether one in the Mosaic code or one drawn up by local magistrates under imperial authority. Love anticipates the purpose of public legislation, namely, to secure the best interests of the citizenry. Since Caesar’s obligation is to punish the wrongdoer (Rom 13:4), the Christian who acts in love is free from all legitimate indictment.1
The blessings of the righteous declared in Psalm 112 are received by those who remain close to God by obedience to the commandments.
* [Psalm 112] An acrostic poem detailing the blessings received by those who remain close to God by obedience to the commandments. Among their blessings are children (Ps 112:2), wealth that enables them to be magnanimous (Ps 112:3, 5, 9), and virtue by which they encourage others (Ps 112:4). The just person is an affront to the wicked, whose hopes remain unfulfilled (Ps 112:10). The logic resembles Ps 1; 111.2 
Jesus uses a Jewish technique to underline the cost of discipleship that calls us not to hold relationships as possessions in the Gospel of Luke.
* [14:25–33] This collection of sayings, most of which are peculiar to Luke, focuses on the total dedication necessary for the disciple of Jesus. No attachment to family (Lk 14:26) or possessions (Lk 14:33) can stand in the way of the total commitment demanded of the disciple. Also, acceptance of the call to be a disciple demands readiness to accept persecution and suffering (Lk 14:27) and a realistic assessment of the hardships and costs (Lk 14:28–32).3
Kyle Lierk observes that we hold on for dear life to the addictions and attractions that rampant consumerism breeds only to be taken for a ride, spun around, and thrown to the ground after which we find ourselves jumping back on for another “ride”. Can we surrender all we have and possess in order to choose the cross for and with Jesus?
St. Ignatius of Loyola described the means to this end through the concepts of indifference and detachment.  This is not the type of indifference I express when my wife asks what I think we should have for dinner (“I don’t care.” -- *cue my stomach growling) or I fein when my dentist says I have a cavity (“No big deal.” -- *cue my anxiety rising).  This is a much deeper indifference that requires regular prayer imploring God’s guidance beyond my clinging to desired objects or outcomes. As he writes in the First Principle and Foundation of his Spiritual Exercises:
It is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things as much as we are able, so that we do not necessarily want health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty, honor rather than dishonor, a long rather than a short life, and so in all the rest, so that we ultimately desire and choose only what is most conducive for us to the end for which God created us.4
Marina McCoy, an associate professor of philosophy at Boston College, explores Ignatian indifference.
Often, we think about freedom as freedom from interference from others, but St. Ignatius understood freedom differently. For him, human freedom is a freedom to grow in relationship with God and share in God’s redemptive work. This requires internal freedom or what Ignatius called “indifference.” Indifference means being detached enough from things, people, or experiences to be able either to take them up or to leave them aside, depending on whether they help us to “to praise, reverence, and serve God” (Spiritual Exercises 23). In other words, it’s the capacity to let go of what doesn’t help me to love God or love others—while staying engaged with what does.5 
Don Schwager asks why does the Lord Jesus say we must 'hate' our families and even ourselves (Luke 14:26)? He quotes “Jesus permits us to love family but not more than God,” by Cyril of Alexandria, 375-444 A.D. as a response.
"He says, 'He that loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me. He that loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me' (Matthew 10:37). By adding 'more than me,' it is plain that he permits us to love, but not more than we love him. He demands our highest affection for himself and that very correctly. The love of God in those who are perfect in mind has something in it superior both to the honor due to parents and to the natural affection felt for children." (excerpt from COMMENTARY ON LUKE, HOMILY 105).6 
In Biblical times the expression 'to hate' often meant to 'prefer less'. Jesus used strong language to make clear that nothing should take precedence or first place over God.

The Word Among Us Meditation on Romans 13:8-10 comments that every ordinary day presents opportunities for us to show sympathy or thoughtfulness to someone else or to refuse to entertain resentful or egotistical thoughts. Every ordinary day we can grow in the love that is the fulfillment of the law, because God will help us.

Love is not simple, and it’s definitely not always easy. As St. Paul famously wrote, it requires patience and kindness. It requires that we not be jealous, quick-tempered, boastful, or proud. We can’t brood over injuries or rejoice in wrongdoing (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
The Greek word for this type of love, agape, conveys the sense of giving without expecting anything in return. Loving someone like that is hard, and for most of us, it doesn’t come naturally. For all of us, it’s work, the labor of a lifetime. Even more to the point, we can’t do it on our own. It requires extravagant amounts of divine grace.7 

Friar Jude Winkler cites a rabbinic understanding of the entire Law as Love. Jesus speaks in a very Jewish way about relationships that may be more important than our Love of God. Friar Jude expresses the cost of discipleship as “giving as much as we can today and more tomorrow.”


Fr. Richard Rohr, OFM, believes we have squandered our inheritance, which is the earth itself, the majesties and mysteries it holds. We’ve taken it for granted, using it too freely for our own selfish purposes while ignoring the deeply divine messages communicated in everything from the smallest sub-atomic particle to the largest black holes. Surely it is time for us to bring science and religion together. Increasingly, the generations alive today (the devout included) relate to scientific, historic, and cross-cultural evidence as more authoritative than the dictates of an all-male, ecclesiastical body or a literalist reading of Scripture. In the practice of Ignatian indifference we are open to contemplate changes to bring us closer to freedom and more receptive to seeing Creation as essential to our emerging wholeness.

References

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(n.d.). Romans, chapter 13 - United States Conference of Catholic .... Retrieved November 6, 2019, from http://www.usccb.org/bible/romans/13 
2
(n.d.). Psalms, chapter 112 - United States Conference of Catholic .... Retrieved November 6, 2019, from http://www.usccb.org/bible/psalms/112 
3
(n.d.). Luke, chapter 14 - United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Retrieved November 6, 2019, from http://www.usccb.org/bible/luke/14 
4
(n.d.). Daily Reflections - OnlineMinistries .... Retrieved November 6, 2019, from https://onlineministries.creighton.edu/CollaborativeMinistry/daily.html 
5
(n.d.). Ignatian Indifference - Ignatian Spirituality. Retrieved November 6, 2019, from https://www.ignatianspirituality.com/ignatian-indifference/ 
6
(n.d.). Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved November 6, 2019, from https://dailyscripture.servantsoftheword.org/ 
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(2019, November 6). 31st Week in Ordinary Time - Mass Readings and Catholic .... Retrieved November 6, 2019, from https://wau.org/meditations/2019/11/06/ 
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(2019, November 6). The Prodigal Species — Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved November 6, 2019, from https://cac.org/the-prodigal-species-2019-11-06/ 

Monday, October 1, 2018

Circumstance and constant connection

The drama of the Book of Job sets the stage for contemplation of how our relationship with God may change with circumstances.
Our rainy day relationship
The Book of Job does not definitively answer the problem of the suffering of the innocent, but challenges readers to come to their own understanding
In the Gospel from Luke, Jesus brings a child into the group of disciples to teach about avoiding rivalry and intolerance.
* [9:46–50] These two incidents focus on attitudes that are opposed to Christian discipleship: rivalry and intolerance of outsiders.
Mariana Miller finds in the Book of Job a perfect example of indifference as expressed by Ignatius of Loyola  “I ought not to seek health rather than sickness, wealth rather than poverty, honor rather than dishonor, a long life rather than a short one, and so on”.
A lot had been given to Job: he had a great family with many healthy children, he had wealth and prosperity and he, himself was healthy and strong to keep working and enlarging his estate. And he used it all as a means to grow in his relationship with God, he was grateful and faithful, and praised God for it. He grew closer to God. One day he lost it all: his children, his employees, his cattle, his crops, and his wealth. Still, Job never ceased to “praise, reverence and serve the Lord our God…” (cf. Spiritual Exercises #23)
Mike Hayes, co-founder of BustedHalo, reflects that Ignatian indifference means that our dependence needs to rely on God. Do we believe that God cares for us, in some way, in even the most dire situations? If so, then it doesn’t matter what might befall us.
A great example comes from when you need to make a choice about your next move in life and you narrow things down to two choices. Being indifferent means that whether you choose one or the other, you trust that God will go with you, leading you into the unfamiliar and new.
A post by Franciscan Media on Thérèse of Lisieux, a Carmelite nun called the “Little Flower,” comments that preoccupation with self separates modern men and women from God, from their fellow human beings, and ultimately from themselves. We must re-learn to forget ourselves, to contemplate a God who draws us out of ourselves, and to serve others as the ultimate expression of selfhood. These are the insights of Saint Thérèse.
Thérèse has much to teach our age of the image, the appearance, the “self.” We have become a dangerously self-conscious people, painfully aware of the need to be fulfilled, yet knowing we are not. Thérèse, like so many saints, sought to serve others, to do something outside herself, to forget herself in quiet acts of love. She is one of the great examples of the gospel paradox that we gain our life by losing it, and that the seed that falls to the ground must die in order to live.
The meditation of Don Schwager invites us to learn from the child among the disciples of Jesus arguing about who is the greatest among them.
What can a little child possibly teach us about greatness? Children in the ancient world had no rights, position, or privileges of their own. They were socially at the "bottom of the rung" and at the service of their parents, much like the household staff and domestic servants. What is the significance of Jesus' gesture? Jesus elevated a little child in the presence of his disciples by placing the child in a privileged position of honor at his right side. It is customary, even today, to seat the guest of honor at the right side of the host. Who is the greatest in God's kingdom? The one who is humble and lowly of heart - who instead of asserting their rights willingly empty themselves of pride and self-seeking glory by taking the lowly position of a servant or child.
The Word Among Us Meditation on Luke 9:46-50 urges us to adopt crouching low in humility. It gives us a strategic advantage. The disciples hadn’t learned that yet. Still thinking that higher was better, they argued over who was the greatest among them. But Jesus rewrote the rules when he equated receiving a lowly child with receiving him.
“Going low” is powerful for this simple reason: it’s the place where we’ll find Jesus. It’s the place where we’ll find the One who “emptied himself” to walk among us and who “humbled himself” by accepting death on a cross (Philippians 2:7, 8). It’s the place where we’ll find the One who came to care for “the poor,” the “captives,” and “the oppressed” (Luke 4:18). It’s the place where we’ll find the One who came “to give his life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45). The more often we lay down our ego and our agenda, the more often we will find God’s grace and the ability to love the people around us.
Friar Jude Winkler comments on the fictional theodicy in the Book of Job to contemplate why a good God permits the manifestation of evil. The tension is with wisdom sayings that the righteous receive reward from God in this life. Friar Jude invites us to consider that children can’t pay us back so we avoid doing good to receive in return.

Fr. Richard Rohr, OFM, uses a text from Job 11:7-9 to introduce that the Bible, in its entirety, finds a balance between knowing and not-knowing, between using particular and carefully chosen words and having humility about words, even though the ensuing traditions have not often found that same balance.
I understand the individual ego’s and the institution’s structural need for clarity, some basic order, and identity, especially to get us started when we are young. Religion then needs a key to unlock itself from itself—but from the inside, which many call the mystical or contemplative tradition. Most successful reforms come from using one’s own internal resources to self-correct. The words “mystery,” “mystical,” and “mutter” all come from the Indo-European root word muein, which means to “hush or close the lips.” We must start with humble, patient, wordless unknowing, sincere curiosity, or what many call “beginner’s mind.” Only then are we truly teachable. Otherwise, we only hear whatever confirms our present understanding.
Our expectations about our relationship with God may bring us to question circumstances that invite surrender and humility.

References

(n.d.). Job — introduction - United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Retrieved October 1, 2018, from http://www.usccb.org/bible/job/0
(n.d.). Luke chapter 9 - United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Retrieved October 1, 2018, from http://www.usccb.org/bible/lk/9:66
n.d.). Creighton U Daily Reflections .... Retrieved October 1, 2018, from http://onlineministries.creighton.edu/CollaborativeMinistry/daily.html
(2013, May 2). What does St. Ignatius mean when he calls us to indifference .... Retrieved October 1, 2018, from https://bustedhalo.com/questionbox/what-does-st-ignatius-mean-when-he-calls-us-to-indifference
(n.d.). Saint of the Day – Franciscan Media. Retrieved October 1, 2018, from https://www.franciscanmedia.org/source/saint-of-the-day/
(n.d.). Daily Scripture Readings and Meditations. Retrieved October 1, 2018, from https://dailyscripture.servantsoftheword.org/
(n.d.). 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time - Mass Readings and Catholic Daily .... Retrieved October 1, 2018, from https://wau.org/meditations/
(n.d.). Daily Meditations Archives - Center for Action and Contemplation. Retrieved October 1, 2018, from https://cac.org/category/daily-meditations/